Jacob Sutton Seminar-Fall 2018

Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin More and more I am starting to believe that adulthood is a social construct.  It is more the idea of the "adult roles" you take on such as you mature throughout life that make people think think you're an adult.  Do you pay the mortgage?  Are you living independently?  Have you finally moved out of your parents' house?  Are you financially independent?  All of these things are the roles that society tells a group of people that they need to fit.  I mean, think about it.  Teenagers feel as though they need to fit certain stereotypes and roles that society throws at them all the time.  Everyone, no matter what age you are or where you come from is just so used to just being thrown into a box.  When you break out of that box, it is surprising... and possibly unsettling for another group.  For example, if an "adult" were to, say, still be living with their parents, that would surprise many people.  Bec...

Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin, In a way, the years of your life during the period of emerging adulthood are the most important.  it is the period between youth and true adulthood, where you try on different roles to try to find your true self.  Let's say you're spending time trying to find what to wear to a date.  You try on your dark blue suit... too preppy for your date.  You give the "causal look" a try... no,  that's not right either.    Then all of a sudden, a lightbulb goes off in your head and you go with some jeans and black button down shirt.  So in a sense, the period of emerging adulthood is like trying on clothes.  It can be a very stressful experience, but somehow you find the perfect things to wear. The article Emerging Adulthood by Jeffrey Jensen Arnett discusses the development of teenagers from ages 18-25.  Much of the article gets it totally right.  So far for myself, emerging adulthood has been a stage of self d...

What did you particularly enjoy about the film?  What about the film remains especially relevant today?  What seems dated?  What kind of correspondence can you draw between what you've been reading in Passages and the film.   Be specific.  Refer directly to the text in your blog. Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin, The Breakfast Club starts with a simple quote from the David Bowie song, “Changes”. The quote goes as follows, “...And these children that you spit on as they try to change their worlds, are immune to your consultations. They’re quite aware of what they’re going through...". The iconic David Bowie song comes to be the whole message of the movie; that no matter how much an older generation may disagree and criticise the younger generation for trying to change the world, they aren’t going to stop trying to change it in their ways, and nor are they going to do exactly what they are told or expected of, by parents or any adults. This is not out of sheer ma...

Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin I have always known what I wanted to do with my life.  I am rather indecisive in certain situations regarding what to eat, what to wear... basically all the little things in life, but one thing I have always been decisive over is what I want to pursue in life.  This puts me in the identity achieved group.  However, one is not simply always at the identity achieved stage.  I have gone through different passages which have made me realize the values that I hold, the beliefs that I follow, and the career path that I want to take.  Yes I am still growing and maturing in so many ways, but my moral values and passions are, at this point, things that are a part of who I am.   One of my  best friends, Jessie, is in the identity foreclosed group.  He performs averagely in school, has a good education, and comes from a privileged background.  But he is my age, and has no idea what he wants to do...

Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin "Don't be like us, be like them" While reading this chapter, I was immediately drawn to this thought that Dennis's mom had... or should I say, the overarching and unsaid thought of the black community in America.  Through learning about Dennis's life growing up, we learn that our passages are determined by our environment, those who we are surrounded by, and sometimes just by others' preconceived notions of who we are.  Dennis's parents have the life experiences to know that the passages that they have faced are much more severe than that of a white person. Dennis's parents only want the best for their son, and to them, that means acting like a white person.  Many black people are criminalized for crimes that they did not commit, and put in jail from a young age.  While a young white man is out in the world getting a pristine education, a young black male sits in a jail cell, awaiting his trial.  While that same...

Jacob Sutton Dr. Mirskin From the very beginning, this section of Passages really struck a chord in me.  Right at the start, Sheehy begins talking about finding and developing our own sense of individuality. "With the debut of the first separate sense of self about the age of two, we are endowed with an extraordinary gift: the makings of our own individuality". Excuse me?  Are you saying that since I was just a baby, I was beginning to find my sense of self?  It's insane to think that, subconsciously we have all been trying to distinguish ourselves from those close to us (aka our parents and loved ones) throughout our whole entire lives.  However for a very long part of my life, my Merger Self would take over, attaching me to my parents and making me scared of letting go.  Maybe it was my anxiety, love for my parents or sensitivity, but for some reason I just found it hard to WANT to distinguish myself from my parents. Now, onto high school.  Th...